Setting Up Your First Home Together

One of the things that a bride and groom need to think about is setting up their first home together. (Even if you live together before the wedding, keep reading - you may find some useful tips.) Not only do you have to find a place to live, but you need to think about what you will need to fill it.

It is pretty rare these days that the bride or groom goes straight from living with their parents to being married. Most habitancy have spent some time living on their own, and therefore will already have some of the things that you need to set up a house. But before deciding that you are all set, take some time to value what you for real have. One scratched up old saucepot from your college days does not exactly constitute a well-appointed kitchen!

A good way to get the things that you will need for your first home is straight through the bridal registry. If you register at a division store or a place like Pottery Barn, not only can you request registry standards like bedding, towels, dishes, and stemware, but you can also register for some of the large items needed to make a gorgeous home. No fellas, I am not talking about a flatscreen television! I am referring to items like sofas, chairs, and coffee tables. Now if they are very expensive, you may find that they go unpurchased, but there is all the time a opening that a few habitancy could get together on one of the larger gifts, or the couple's parents might decide to give them furniture as a wedding gift.

One of the most useful things about a registry is that it military you to sit down and see what you have and what you need. Even if you do not end up getting everything that you have requested, at least you will have an organized list to use in the future. Some places will also offer you a extra discount to purchase any items remaining on the registry after your wedding, so even if you know that none of your guests will be buying you a dining room table, put it on the list anyway. That way, if you decide to buy it yourself after the wedding, you will save some money.

Beyond the basics, you will want to think about the things that will make your first place for real feel like a home. Painting the walls is an cheap and easy way to add character to a house. If you do not want to commit to a bold color, pick a subtle one like a soft warm gold, or a pale sage green. Neutrals can be safe without being boring.

Then it is on to the personal touches. Of course, you will want some of your wedding photos prominently displayed in your home. From there, the newlyweds can custom the fine art of compromise. For instance, the bride might agree to forgo surface their bed with her favorite dolls and stuffed animals if the groom agrees to put his neon "Bud Light" sign into the yard sale. The key is to strike a balance, and create an environment that is neither too feminine, nor too much like a frat house. That way, both habitancy will feel comfortable there.

The first night that you spend in your new home together is a very big deal. It is worth planning something extra for that night. Even if you end up eating a pizza while sitting on the provocative boxes, try to make it romantic. Dig out a combine of the champagne flutes that you received as a wedding present (because everybody gets champagne flutes - I think my husband and I received about 24 of them!), and drink a toast to your new home and the start of your new life together. The groom can make the occasion extra memorable by surprising his new wife with a gift of jewelry to match her wedding set. Wedding jewelry gifts like another ring to wear with her band, or a anklet to match her bridal earrings would be a very thoughtful and sweet gesture.

You will all the time remember your first home together as a married couple. Whether it is a big house in the suburbs or a tiny studio apartment in the city, it will be extra because it is yours together. Put the exertion into making your home a relaxing oasis that you will both love to return to every night.

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